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The Men I Don't Know
I raised two boys. Somewhere beyond my reach they became men I hardly know. On the quiet, ongoing grief of estrangement from your grown children.
Aug 4
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Steve Zenone
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July 2026
The Ones Who Stayed
A personal essay on blended family life: the unconditional love of a spouse who stayed and a stepson who keeps showing up, and holding gratitude beside…
Jul 30
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Steve Zenone
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The Victim
She wanted to take my wife to court to be named the victim. The court dismissed it. There's a name for the move: DARVO, and it works on everyone but the…
Jul 28
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Steve Zenone
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The Closet
Part two of The Phone Was Never the Problem. My son hid in a closet to call his father, and was punished for reaching me. What coercive control does to…
Jul 21
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Steve Zenone
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The Phone Was Never the Problem
I gave my sons phones so they could reach me. Reaching me became the one thing that could cost them everyone else. What that does to a child.
Jul 14
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Steve Zenone
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The Apology That Isn't Mine to Make
Reconciliation advice tells estranged parents to own their part. For an alienated parent, the apology demanded is often a confession to someone else's…
Jul 7
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Steve Zenone
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June 2026
No Contact, From the Other Side of Estrangement
The vocabulary of healthy estrangement is also the script of alienation. From the outside you can't always tell which one you're looking at.
Jun 30
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Steve Zenone
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The Waiting Room
I stopped waiting at the window. I never left the room.
Jun 23
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Steve Zenone
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The Father's Day I Stopped Waiting
The phone didn't ring. At some point, I stopped listening for it.
Jun 16
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Steve Zenone
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The Door Is Open. I Am Not Standing There.
When loving an adult child no longer means chasing him
Jun 9
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Steve Zenone
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The Weight of Being Right
The record is clear. The years are still gone. Those two facts live in the same body.
Jun 2
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Steve Zenone
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May 2026
She Went to My Employer
In March 2024, someone sent an anonymous email to my company's HR. I know what it said because my attorney documented it.
May 26
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Steve Zenone
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